This past Sunday evening we helped at a dinner for the graduating seniors of Makerere University who attend UCF. Here, the seniors are called finalists, hence the name of the event: Finalist Dinner.
Dressed up heading to the dinner.
This is how much Trey likes getting his picture taken. He insisted we take one sad photo because it accurately depicts how taking pictures makes him feel.
He agreed to smile in this photo since he got to take a sad one first.
When we arrive at church at 5:00 p.m., the time the event was scheduled to start, only one finalist was there. One. For real. We haven't gotten the hang of African time yet. Since nothing was setup or ready to go we pitched in to help. Trey and I did some food prep. He willingly burned off the feeling in his fingers while making chapatti. He's been trying to lose feeling in his fingertips since we got married. All the great chefs, home cooks, and most moms can touch hot things without getting burned so he wants that ability too. He says it's like having a mini-super power! That Trey sure does make me laugh.

Check out his smile below. Trey will smile for a photo when there are other people around. I think it's an avoiding public shame thing. I try to take advantage of that. It's my grown-up version of asking your parents if your friend can come over in front of the friend. It forces them to agree to avoid an awkward situation. But in the grown-up version I don't get in trouble afterwards because I'm totally in the right and Trey knows it.
But he did shift his eyes. Subtle defiance. Also, don't mind Kyle's death stare. Maybe he was channeling Trey's inner feelings?
And here I am trying to avoid slicing my fingers off while shredding cabbage with a dull knife on a tray in my lap.
The tent all decorated for the event. I love the colorful fabric.
Sarah and I with our friend Diana.
Inside the tent.
The event finally started up around 6:30 p.m. 1.5 hours after the scheduled start time! One of the members from UCF used our camera to take photos of everyone as they arrived and entered the tent. That meant us too! I'm smiling triumphantly because Trey has to pose for a miserable three seconds for yet another dreaded photo and this time someone else is to blame! Victory is mine!
Kyle and Sarah gave a short talk to the new grads about meeting, dating, and marrying the right person.
There were a few more speakers who talked about interviews, jobs, and being professional. And then we ate dinner. At 9:00 p.m.! Oh my gosh I thought I was going to pass out from hunger. Lucky I survived but it was a close call. Uganda eat much later than we do. Lunch isn't until 2 or 3 p.m. and dinner is anytime after 8 p.m. Boy howdy I don't think I'll ever adjust to that.
And then, of course, in the African tradition, we did the ceremonial cake cutting. It's a big deal, folks. The cake was cut, pictures were taken (my camera battery died before this part of the evening), everyone partook, and then we went home around 10:00 p.m. It was a long night but a great time of celebrating the finalists and welcoming them into life after college.
*Disclaimer: Trey read and approved this post before it was published. So I had full permission to tease him about his photo induced misery. Plus, he knows he's ridiculous.